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Bullying - What do you do with the mad that you feel?

What Do You Do with the Mad that You Feel?

What do you do with the mad that you feel When you feel so mad you could bite? When the whole wide world seems oh, so wrong… And nothing you do seems very right? What do you do? Do you punch a bag? Do you pound some clay or some dough? Do you round up…
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Social isolation is not a joke

It’s Not a Joke (A Blog in 3 Parts)

A huge part of each of us didn’t want to go.  We’d read about the violence, the darkness, the depravity.  It was the violence, especially, that gave us pause. Besides, it had an abundance of clowns in it and clowns are also one of our least favorite forms of entertainment.  But we also read about…
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Transcript – Thomas Chan Podcast (Thomas’s words only)

4:54 Well, to come to my mind, when I see these soldiers, well armed, with these green uniforms, and they start coming into the town, they start shooting, and I see women get shot in the back, and they don’t even care about the fate of the individual. I escape because I don’t want to…
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Listening Training Growth

STTIT’s Compassionate Listening Training Program is Growing!

This past March Someone To Tell It to was awarded the “Listening in the Business Sector Award”, in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, by the International Listening Association. One of the main reasons why is because of the work we are doing in so many places both near our headquarters in central Pennsylvania, and also because…
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Listening and the Tug of War

She seemed agitated to say the least. The CEO of the health clinic pulled us aside in the middle of a break. Had we done or said something to upset her? We took a deep breath as our faces turned crimson and then were drained of color. “Well, you stepped right into the fray, didn’t…
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The Discovery of our Common Humanity

“This book is about the liberation of the human heart from the tentacles of chaos and loneliness, and from those fears that provoke us to exclude and reject others.  It is a liberation that opens us up and leads us to the discovery of our common humanity.” These are the opening lines of Becoming Human,…
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I dislike discrimination. Truly. Intensely. Viscerally.

I dislike discrimination. Truly.  Intensely.  Viscerally. Age.  Disability.  Gender.  Nationality.  Race.  Religion.  Sexual orientation.  Social status.  I struggle with the many ways we humans tend to categorize others to keep them out or down or excluded.  When we view them as “less than”, not worthy of respect or common decency, or deserving of our scorn,…
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Surprised By Listening

“We learn to listen because we want to learn to love.” ~ Adam McHugh The summer between my freshman and sophomore years of college I needed a job to help pay my way through school.  A dad of a very close friend of mine offered me a position as a security guard at a local…
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Time is How You Spend Your Love

So that she could more comfortably sleep, the cardiac intensive care room was darkened, and only those lights spilling in from the nurses’ station outside of it illuminated the room.   Yeah, and the glow from the multitude of monitors, measuring more vital signs than I could even begin to understand.  More than a dozen IV’s…
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I think I’ve heard that one before…

Listening & Deja Vu Deja Vu – a French term describing the feeling that one has lived through the present situation before; a feeling of familiarity (the feeling of having “already lived through” something); a feeling of recollection. Deja vu accurately describes how we were feeling when we met her last week. Still, our feelings…
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